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3 signs you should have dumped him yesterday


3 signs you should have dumped him yesterday

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While some women may dream about marrying the right guy, finding him may prove to be a bit more tricky.

Perhaps you've found a guy who you thought could be the one but now you're not so sure. Should you keep dating him or should you dump him? The decision is yours entirely but here are some warning signs that may indicate you headed for disaster with this guy and that you would be wise to give the relationships some serious thought.

He needs to know where you are 24/7

While this may seem innocent and cute in the beginning phases of a relationship, a guy who constantly checks on your 24/7 via phone or text is exhibiting major signs of insecurity. While all of us have some insecurities, a guy who feels the need to control where you are, who you're with and when you check in may have a much bigger problem.

Ask yourself

Does your boyfriend get easily upset if you don't pick up the phone right away?

Does your boyfriend call you constantly to the point where it's taking away your peace of mind?

These are signs you don't want to ignore.

He is friends with too may females on Facebook

Now, it's no surprise that your guy would be friends with females on Facebook or Twitter but if most of his friends are female then you need to pay attention.

Ask yourself

Is your boyfriend connected with more woman than men on social media?

Does he get defensive and protective if you ask to see his phone?

Things that make you go Humm...

He lose his temper easily

We all get angry at times but anger should never get to the point where we actually put physical hands on someone. That's grown up people rule number one.

Ask yourself

Does he lose his temper over small things?

Does he push, shove or restrain you when he's upset?

Does he try to intimidate you by raising his voice or threatening violence?

If you answer yes to any of the above questions then you really need to consider options to safely exit from the relationship. Even if it means moving cities without telling him it's over because your safety is paramount.

If you are in an abusive relationship, and you need help getting out, please contact the following.

USA: National Domestic Violence Hotline at 1-800-799-7233

UK: Domestic Violence Helpline at 0808 2000 247

TAIWAN: 113 Protection Hotline at 113

NEW ZEALAND: Domestic Violence Crisis Line at the following numbers 0800 733 843 Women’s Refuge crisis line. 0508 744 633 Confidential domestic abuse helpline. If you're deaf, you can call using the NZ relay service 0800 456 450 Are you ok? It’s ok to ask for help.

JAPAN: The Purple Dial Sexual and Domestic Violence Hotline at 0120-941-826.

CHINA: Women's Hotline in Beijing at 010-68333388

CANADA: Domestic Violence Crisis Line at 1-877-977-0007 TTY 1-888-987-2829

AUSTRALIA: at 1800 RESPECT \ 1800 737 732

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